Although sexting is fun, it can be tricky. Before thinking of taking selfies, you need to get into dirty talk. This can be harder than trying to find a right angle for your butt a mirror that is floor length. It is, however, easy to feel stupid trying to tell somebody what you want them to do via a text message. Even the boldest lady can use the following sexting tips to keep pics private and their kinks on the down-low.

Use it Sexts as Foreplay

Sexting builds high anticipation and hints at what is to come. It is, therefore, ideal for creating pre-sex tension and heat. The right tone can put the two of you in a sexy mood hours before you meet to set the stage for a passionate night. Remember you are not writing a romance novel, so keep the texts short but spice them with juicy details. Words are usually aphrodisiacs and the scenarios you plant in his mind can mold the sex you have in the future.woman holding phone and lying on bed

Do Not Force It

The first rule about sexting is going with your gut. If somebody is asking for pictures, sending unsolicited pics or suggesting things which sound awful, then just shut down. You should enjoy sexting. If there is not a huge on your face whenever you are sexting, then you are doing it wrong.

Use an App

If you are going for full shots and videos of the body, you might want to look into using various apps. Some apps let you block screenshotting and set pics to expire. Apps can help if you are sexting in a busy environment. You can choose the invisible ink from the menu. This ensures your partner opens up the sexts at the Starbucks counter with none of them getting full frontal.

Send Sexy Words Not Pictures

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Sending nude selfies can seem like an easy way of exciting your partner. However, until you trust them truly to not him forward, stick to texting and not revealing shots. Even if you are sending pics to a discreet guy, security breaches usually occur, and relationships may take the wrong turn. Play safe by not sending naked snaps.

Get Dirty

Usually, couples that text no-holds-barred terms feel satisfied with their relationship and have good sexual communication. You do not have to kick the conversation off with the four-letter word. You can start for example by saying “I am infatuated with how soft your lips are.” you can follow this by getting as graphical as the levels allow. One advice for dirty talk is keeping it straightforward. Tell them what you did, what you are doing and what you are going to do.

Never let anybody you are sexting make you feel like being neurotic about sending sexts back and forth more so pictures. Teach them on how to remove geotagging and safely save the videos.…

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